Healing From Childhood Abuse

Sunday, February 28th, 2010

In the 37 years that I have been counseling individuals, I have worked with many people who have suffered from severe physical, emotional, and/or sexual abuse in childhood. Many who have sought my help were suffering from fear and anxiety, depression, various addictions, relationship problems and sexual problems. Many of these people had no memory [...]

The Dead End Of Resistance

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Jimmy had spent many years in various kinds therapy, yet still felt numb and empty inside most of the time. He consulted with me because he hoped that the Inner Bonding process we teach would move him out of feeling so stuck.
It became apparent to me soon after starting to work with Jimmy on the [...]

Are You Stuck In Your Life?

Sunday, February 7th, 2010

Are you constantly reading self-help and motivational books yet nothing changes? Have you tried many different forms of therapy yet still feel unhappy, anxious, depressed and alone? Do you often have the answers for others but not for yourself?
The problem may be that you are intent on “fixing” problems rather than learning about what is [...]

Stress Out The Stress Demon

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Do you feel as if the world is tumbling down on you and that you’re running out of time? Are you losing sleep and eating less due to many responsibilities and too much pressure because of the demands from your family, friends or from work? Well, you are not the only one, kids and adults [...]

Using The Signposts Of Life To Discover A Better Way To Live

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

The day my partner and I redefined our dream for our future I became aware of a very significant fact.
The fact was stark: I was no longer going to be a fifty-fifty stakeholder in the financial arrangements, but a breadwinner with significant support.
I'll be honest, the impact of what stood before me, caused me to [...]

Addiction To Numbness

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

Linda sat opposite me at one of my five-day Inner Bonding Intensives. She had decided to attend the Intensive because her depression, which had plagued her for years, was not being helped by medication or by the numerous forms of therapy that she had tried.
As she sat opposite me, telling me about her past and [...]

Different Types Of Mood Disorders

Sunday, November 1st, 2009

Mood disorder has become a bit of a generic term when discussing mental health. A person with any sort of emotional or psychological difficulty -- generalized anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, phobias, etc. -- may be described as having a “mood disorder”. But in reality, the term mood disorder refers to one of two specific conditions: [...]

Self-Abandonment

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

The Encarta

Tags: anger, anxiety, depression, Fear, guilt, personal development, self help, self improvement, shame, stress management

Stress - Some Ways Not To Deal With It

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

There are any number stress management techniques and for coping with stress in general and dealing with both the physical and emotional causes for stress. There are techniques for both short-term symptoms of stress and even long-term or chronic symptoms of stress are possible.
There are also a certain amount of self employed techniques that are [...]

Emotions As Information

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

When you were a small child, your painful emotions may have felt too overwhelming to feel. If you experienced physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, your little body was not big enough to manage the painful feelings. If you were neglected, unseen, misunderstood, invaded, smothered, shamed or ridiculed, it may have felt too painful to manage. [...]